The ending of a relationship is a difficult time. It can be made even more heartbreaking when the person that you’re leaving is your soulmate. You can feel like you’ve lost something so precious to you and that there’s no hope of getting it back again. The truth, however, is that if you two are meant to be together, you will be together.
It’s true that love is already written in the stars. Our soulmates are out there and all we have to do is find them. Even if you break up, when two people are destined for each other, love will always bring them back together.
You Were Meant To Be Together
In this life, we don’t meet anyone by chance. You two met because you were meant to be together. When you felt your heart beating faster, your hands shaking, and butterflies in your stomach, that was all because you had finally met your soulmate. Deep down, you knew that this would be your forever person.
“A soulmate is someone whom, when you meet, without thinking – without letting your neocortex play into the decision – you feel an instant familiarity, a sense of connection, a longing.”
– Karen Salmansohn
When I met the love of my life, I felt the exact same way. Although I’d never been nervous in love before, I was then. Whenever I saw my significant other my heart would race wildly. Looking into their eyes, I knew they were the one. I knew that whatever may come our way, we could overcome it together.
You Can Be Pulled Away
Life can deal you a hand that you never expected. Things happen that are completely out of our control and sometimes they can cause the unthinkable to happen. You can lose the person that you thought would be by your side forever.
However, that doesn’t mean that you won’t find your way back to each other. If they truly are your soulmate, you will have a bond that cannot be broken. Although it could be months or years before you find each other again, it will happen. You were destined for one another, and nothing can change that.
Sometimes, It’s for the Best
You won’t just lose someone so important to you if it doesn’t have a deeper meaning. There is a reason for everything, even for moving away from the person that you love. Perhaps one of you still has some growing to do, some lessons that need to be learned, or you need to find out who you are when you’re alone.
Sometimes, we can be pulled away from each other so that we can appreciate the love that we have. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and makes us realize how lucky we are to have found our forever person. If it takes being apart for a while to fully understand that, then so be it.
We can’t really lose our soulmates, all we can do is stray away from them for a while. In the end, we will always find our way back to them. The connection between two people who are destined to be together is so strong that they will always manage to find one another again.
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