This Is Why You’ll Regret Losing The Woman Who Waited For You To Get Your Sh*t Together

There are women who love you so much that they do not always know what is best for themselves. They will let you make mistakes over and over again.

This kind of woman will wait for you, not out of ignorance, but because she believes that you can improve and grow as a person. She wants to be there for you. She will give you chance after chance as you try to find your way.
But the truth is that the type of woman who will wait for you to get your sh*t together will also reach her limit. Maybe in the movies, women in love wait forever.

But in real life, once she is done, she is done forever. She will no longer able to be optimistic about your future together. She knows that she deserves the best, just like you deserve the best.


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She will eventually realize that you are not worth her time or effort, because you did not have your sh*t together. She will begin to see that you take her energy and time for granted.

This is a woman who truly knows her worth. Once she has changed her mind about you, it will be impossible to win her back. She gave you too many chances.

It’s important to be accountable for your actions. Just because a woman has tolerated your bullsh*t before does not mean she will tolerate it the next time. Do not mistake her patience for permission. She deserves to be treated well.

There’s no rule saying that someone has to tolerate a person who fails to take responsibility for their actions. No one deserves the stress. Relationships require work, but they should be a source of comfort and happiness.

This woman stayed with you through difficult times. She stuck with you and believed in you. She saw you at your worst and still decided to not give up. But you did not realize what you had until it was too late.

This woman knew every part of your soul and decided to stay, until you pushed her too far. Her kindness reached its limit. You have to accept that you took her kindness for granted. That kind of patience and faith is not easy to find. She believed that you could become a better person, and it’s true, you can.

Once you get your sh*t together, you will find someone else. But you will always wonder whether this new person’s love is as unconditional, if they would have tolerated you at your low points the way that this woman did while you were dating her. She knows everything about you and she stuck with you. Or at least, she did for a while.

It will be hard to accept that your actions pushed her away. It might seem selfish that she has left you, but she needed to find a way to get what was best for herself.

She had her own priorities that you were not paying attention to. You have to meet someone in the middle in a relationship, and she felt like she was putting in too much and not getting enough.

She really did put everything she had into the relationship, honoring you and respecting you. She stuck with you at low points, over and over again, but it finally became too much. She saw you in dark times and brought you happiness. But no one can do that forever if she does not feel fulfilled.

You will regret not treating her right when you had the chance. You will miss the way that she treated you. But she deserves love. She deserves more than what you were capable of giving her.

But you broke her heart because you did not realize how important she was. You will come to understand how she felt and what happened. With more time it will make more sense.

She knows that she will find someone that values her for all that she is worth. Who truly loves her. She isn’t going to wait anymore to find her happiness. She deserves to be respected.

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Higher Perspective
Aug. 16, 2018 09:26AM EST
18 Things That Are An Instant Turn Off Even If You’re Highly Attractive
Do you meet someone nice at a party or get together, but they turn down an invite for coffee? Do you have problems getting beyond a first date or get dropped after a week or two?

If you’re getting ghosted before you even get something started, you might be guilty of one (or more) of these instant turn-offs, even if you’re fit, well-dressed, and very attractive.

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1 – Are you inattentive or distracted?

A potential romantic partner wants to know that you’re important to them. When you look around the room, half-listen to the conversation, or keep checking your phone, you’re sending out the wrong signal.

2 – Do you mock other’s passions?

Everyone has a “thing” they’re into whether it’s bowling, reality TV, kale, or Star Trek. You might not understand it, but if you mock their passion, it’s an instant turn off and shows you’re incompatible.

3 – Do you check out the eye candy?

It’s bad enough if you’re constantly checking your IG, but even worse if you’re openly scoping out a hot guy or girl that turns your head.

4 – Are you closed off emotionally?

It’s not a good idea to unpack your emotional baggage the moment you meet someone, but if you can’t open up at all, that’s a problem too.

5 – Are you a poor sport?

One round of pool at the local dive bar and a potential mate might scratch and run if you rage when you lose or thump your chest and brag when you win.

6 – Do you have fits of jealousy?

Being wanted is a nice feeling, but if you get possessive and see everyone as a threat, that can get old fast.

7 – Are you a pessimist?

If every conversation is about how much you don’t like something, how it annoys you, or you constantly criticize, you’re a pessimist. That can send a prospect scurrying away instantly.

8 – Are you a backstabber?

Trustworthiness is a top trait that attracts people, but if you’re one that can’t wait until someone leaves the room to unload trash talk them, it’s no surprise you’re not getting anyone’s digits.

9 – Is materialism your thing?

It’s nice to have nice things, but if that’s all that matters to you or you judge people by their possessions, you might find yourself judged a poor potential partner.

10 – Do you have low self-worth?

It’s nice to be humble (even if you’re awesome), but if your sense of self-worth is so low that it’s driving negative behaviors, you might come off as too much trouble.

11 – Do you belittle potential dates?

Are you sarcastic? Do you hand out burns or make jokes at other’s expense? If so, you might be getting brushed off with good reason.

12 – Are you a poor conversationalist?

Relationships start with a chat. If you can’t hold a meaningful conversation on subjects of mutual interest, your looks won’t be enough to hold their interest.

13 – Are you argumentative?

If bickering gives you a thrill or you must always get your way, no doubt you’re turning off people that you’d like to be dating.

14 – Do you lack ambition?

You don’t need to unroll a road map of your five-year plan, but if you don’t have life goals and ambitions (maybe even a bucket list), you might come off as immature.

15 – Must you be the center of attention?

The spotlight is great for an actor, but don’t expect a girl or guy you want to stick around if it’s always about you. When every sentence starts with “I,” then you have a problem.

16 – Are you disrespectful?

To be a good prospect as a love interest, the object of your affection must trust you to interact with their friends, family, and co-workers in a way that won’t embarrass them.

17 – Are you a stage-five clinger?

Everyone needs a little space, and if you can’t leave a little breathing room for a potential partner to hang out with friends or have a cocktail after work, you’re going to chase them away.

18 – Do you issue ultimatums?

No one wants to hear “or else.” If you always make threats to get your way, it’s an instant turn off.